I am almost 40 and so is my wife.
She was the one in charge and we use to have a very active sex life.
This changed with the pregnancy and that was when for her birthday (7/10/18) she asked me to make her a very special present.
To lock myself, hand her the keys and never ask her for anything sexual until xmas. After over 3 years things is now time to change.
I can not handle being sexually forgotten, neglected and horny.
I wouldn't care if she decided to lock me permanently as long as we had sex often enough. The fact that I gave up my penis for her doesn't mean that I lost my interest in sex. On the contrary, there is something new between my legs to remind me all the time!